Wedding gifts...

A friend of ours is getting married for the first time this weekend. We aren't going to be able to go to the wedding but have been trying to find just the right gift. Given that our friend is in her 40's and has had her own home for a long time there isn't much that she really needs. We have considered a gift from somewhere like Shari's berries.com gift baskets and also looked at gift cards. Since they will be combining two home into one I don't want to give them more stuff that will just sit around or be a duplicate of something they already have. I think am thinking that the right gift will be something that they can choose themselves. Hopefully, we will narrow down an exact gift in the next couple of day and get it in the mail to them.